Manitoba Marriage Commmissioner and Marriage License Vendor

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Posted by Sheryl Hunnie on June 12, 2011 at 5:20 PM Comments comments (0)

One of the questions I am asked most frequently is, “Why did you become a Marriage Commissioner?” To be honest, the reasons were, at first purely selfish; I have always love weddings! When I was younger, I was part of a large family and it seemed that there was always a wedding being talked of and planned for.  The photo albums of my childhood are punctuated by these festivities: brides-to-be festooned with paper plate hatscovered in bows, bridesmaids in pastel dresses, beaming grooms in ruffled shirts.  As I entered young adulthood,the brides and grooms were my friends and colleagues, and then I, too, was collecting Brides magazines and planning for my future.   For a while we were attending the weddings of younger cousins and few friends, but then,all at once it seemed, the wedding bells stopped ringing.  I had to become content with watching at a distance, catching the odd celebrity wedding in the news, and eventually succumbing to reality television series. Many of the weddings I watched were so different from the traditional wedding I had had years ago, and I was moved by the intimacy and ingenuity of these celebrations.   When I remarked on this to my husband one evening, he replied, “You know, with your background in English and drama, you should somehow figure out a way to be involved in creating wedding services for people. “ 

I am not sure why I had never seriously considered it before that moment.  I had toyed with becoming a marriage commissioner once years ago when a friend was having trouble finding someone to marry her and her fiancé.  I had all of the paperwork ready, but hadn’t followed through and when the fiancé’s uncle stepped up to perform the service, I let the moment pass.   My husband’s comments had given me new resolve, however, and within a short time I successfully completed the necessary steps and gained my license.

Becoming a Marriage Commissioner is one of the most fulfilling things I have done in my adult life. I absolutely love meeting and working with couples, planning for and officiating at their wedding ceremonies. I enjoy hearing their stories and helping them choose readings and vows that help them to share their very public commitment to one another in a meaningful way.  I enjoy the process when we create something that is wholly their own, or simply want to try a new twist on a traditional ceremony.  It is most fun when a bride and groom want to incorporate cultural aspects into their services.  

And the weddings! From small, intimate weddings on my back deck overlooking the Red River to extravagant affairs, each of the weddings I have had the pleasure to officiate have been occasions of such joy and hope, happy tears and laughter.  It has been an honour and privilege to have been a part of each couples’ special day.